On the first day of vacation

 my true love did not bother me. So I could sleep in. And I did. About to have some coffee and really just relax today. Maybe, I really need a plan for the time off and what/when to start purging shit. Today though once I get some eggs, it is more baking and just hanging out. 

My kiddo hung out with us for a good chunk yesterday and honestly, we were a bit worried. Who knows. His friends are most likely out there doing stuff and he is not. Hate that. Wish he was more social. No idea how to make that happen for him. Just hope and pray he figures it out sooner than later. 

I need a new calendar planner. I should probably go to Aldi. I need eggs and that. I need to get back into some kind of fitness or meditation or anything really. But planning for the big move will be coming at me full force with a new year of work and new classes soon behind. How to manage it all. Another thing to figure out. 

Goals for the next year: 

Get into a steady fitness & wellness plan- Small goals to lead the way to that - start with small sessions of yoga or just meditation. (15 mins) move up gradually. Join the online Zumba Cardio & Tone app. Move at work - etc. 

Get a nice cleaning schedule down for the new house- once moved in - create daily, weekly, monthly chores 

I don't know - I need to sit down again with this after the move. Life will be up in the air until then and I do not want to stress myself out. So yeah - just going to flow with it. 

I finished a Bridgerton book yesterday so I can start the next one. 

I told my friend Amy I would help her out with one of her spiritual classes for healing. So, we will be planning a zoom some time. It will be good for me and hopefully her. She has been someone I look up to for a long time now and even though it seems our paths are supposed to fizzle, I have pushed for that not to happen. She is someone I hope to be a life long friend. I will look into her spiritual path at some point. It is good to have a mentor. I hope to push the same from one of the ladies at my work too. She is known as the mama of the office, but really hope she will let me into her knowledge on the unit she works for. Even with talking with one of the girls though, I have decided social services will be the next step after paralegal. I am going to continue this path of good and even though we face a ton of red tape, maybe we can work together to take some of it down. 

Wondering what I can get into with my new town or village. Hoping my neighbors are okay. Seem to be older couples and honestly that is what hubby and both need. We lack the parent front and having some older folks to connect with will be good. I plan to volunteer some time if I am able to the little farm next door. Hoping they can shine some light on our property lines and how to go about some things. I keep seeing a little stand with some herbs and veggies in my future. I think we will be there for a lot more years than I am planning. Not sure how I feel about that yet. 

Dreading the Buttery Christmas at his mom's. He said he was going to talk to her, but he just plans to show up and I hate that. Last year she was not even awake or prepared after partying the night before. Felt very awkward. At least next year we can offer a spot for people to come and if they do then yay. If not - oh well. Today I was supposed to do cookies with my sis and kids but she of course will ignore me until the last min and welp I am not planning for someone last minute. Same shit different day with that and I need to learn to let it go. Again. 

Moving in silence sounds ideal, but it is lonely. Again to the no friends bit. It sucks. I hope to grow my social life a little too this next year. I always feel like this when I am not connecting with my hubby and here we are. Just not connecting. But in a good way I think. We are just comfortable.